I mean, really! Give yourself exactly what you need, what makes your soul sing and your heart soar! Don’t wait for others to do this for you, for that will never happen!
I say that giving to yourself is vital to your health and the health of this planet and the web of all that is.

Tiny bird nest
Listen to yourself, listen to your body, become aware of what your body is communicating to you. Give it love and attention, loving touch, kind regard, acceptance.
Give yourself compassion, understanding, kindness, time and space to breathe, time to be.
Give yourself soothing when you need it, true friends; surround yourself with beauty, the colors your heart desires, time in nature, the music that moves you, a comfortable and peaceful home, good nourishing food.
Give yourself a healthy fit body, lifelong learning and growth, new exciting ideas, stimulating challenges to solve.
Give yourself deep rich soil, earth energy, sunlight, moonlight, starlight, strong deep roots, a magnificent crown of sweet green leaves, glimmering in the breeze.

Grandmother Cottonwood in summer
Allow yourself to know your strong unbreakable connection to source.
Please know that you do not need to spend a penny or go into debt to take care of yourself. Begin at your center to give yourself the love and kind regard of which you are worthy.